The Road Trip Down South

I am having a hot cup of tea while typing this trip down. We suppose to arrive at 4:30pm today, but the flight was delayed  due to strong winds in Auckland. The airplane almost touched the ground then took off again due to gusts of wind, then the plane circled around Auckland city through thick clouds and strong turbulence, we finally touched down at 5:30pm and the whole cabin clapped happily for the safe landing. Isabella was fantastic throughout the flight, she didn’t get grumpy, happily sat on my lap through the bumpy ride. I took it from her behaviour that fear is something we learnt through life, she is fearless because the world is brand new to her and she is learning everything for the first time.

Magnus told me he had driven 1500 K on this trip. We flew to Queenstown and drove to Wanaka on the first day, spent two night at this cute three bedroom house by the lake. The weather was cloudy and we had drizzly rain on our 2nd day. Lichen, Magnus and I had Korean food in Wanaka on the 1st night, it was surprisingly delicious. Especially the sizzling octopus Lichen ordered which was super fresh and tasty. We walked along the lake for 3 hours and the rest of time just took it easy at the house.

The 2nd stop was Lake Tekapo. This accommodation was the most expensive one on the trip. The place is well furnished, it even had a toy box. Isabella was excited about the toys  for 20 mins, then her attention as usual moved on to the “forbidden” objects: shoes, plastic boxes, tissue papers and electrical cables. My parents wanted to do the star gazing tour, but it was cancelled due to poor weather conditions.  During the day, we visited Mt Cook national park, the peak of Mt Cook was hidden behind the clouds. The view is spectacular, everything seem to be floating behind the misty clouds. We had an hour walk before the rain started. Isabella was very excited on these nature walks, she may become a keen outdoor adventurer.

The third place on this trip is Dunedin. We almost did not include this stop if not because of our friends Liz and Lyra. We met Liz and Lyra about 5 or 6 years ago in Auckland. They moved down to Dunedin a couple of years ago due to Liz’s job at Otago Polytec. Dunedin is the biggest surprise to Magnus and me. We visited Sandfly Bay, it was the first bright sunny day on our trip. We carried Isabella down the steep sandy beach and saw the fur seals lazying around.  The water is deep green, it is different from the colours up north. The landscape and the beach seem much wilder and more majestic comparing to the beaches near Auckland. My parents walked around town in the evening, they enjoyed the architects of the city. It has more characters than the building in Auckland city. The most interesting places we have been to on this trip for me is the Larnarch Castle, the place is filled with stories and scandles. When I walked through all the different rooms, I can’t help but to imagine the days when it was being built and the nights those people spent there.

The final two days we stayed on this farm suited along the Catlins. There was no Wifi and phone coverage at the accommodation. The panorama view of the water was stunning from the house. Isabella slept through the 1st night, it was great for Magnus and I. However, we were counting on her to wake us up in the middle of the night so we can see the stars, so we got our 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep but we missed out on seeing the night sky. We also visited the Nugget point, Kaka point, McLean waterfalls, Slope point and Curio Bay. The food were great at the Point Cafe and also the Whistling frog cafe. We were impressed by the fresh local food, and the simple yet delicious dishes served at these far away places. What amazed me the most along the Catlins is probably the petrified forests some 180 million years old at Curio Bay. I keep saying to myself I meant nothing when I stood on these petrified forests site. One thing I should have done is taking a photo of 11 months old Isabella sitting on this site, that would be quite a contrast of the ancient and the new.

 

Recap of 2017

Here is a recap of 2017 before it slips by, its been a significant year.

January – Magnus and I moved back to Auckland , landed on 1st January. We stayed with Ferren, James, Chewy and Mirka.

February – Moved to Celtic Crescent. Most importantly, Isabella surprised us by arriving on Valentines’s day.

March – After two weeks in the hospital, we brought Isabella home with us just in time for Magnus’s birthday. My parents arrived Auckland, and stayed at a friend’s place.

April – Dad spent his birthday with us at Clevedon farmer’s market. Isabella grew bigger and stronger each day. My parents spent times at a farm up north, truly embraced Kiwi lifestyle.

May – Celebrated my birthday at Ferren’s place.

June – Magnus and I renovated the front garden at Celtic Crescent, we decided to rent the place out and move in a bigger place with my parents. Dad left for China to do business.

July – Moved in the new place, its a lot bigger with lots of outdoor space.

August – We start to getting out more and more with Isabella, she also took her first swim class.

September – Threw a surprise birthday party for Audrey. Visited Jeanette up north with my mum, mum was very impressed by J’s life style and independence. Isabella got her Norwegian and New Zealand passports.

October – Farewelled Jennifer with Foundation’s Auckland colleagues. Jennifer is one of the most important mentors I have had with both work and life. Had a reunion with NICU mums at our place, all three bubbas grew a lot stronger comparing to hospital days. We took a road trip to Russell, it was Isabella’s another “first time”.

November – I organised an international conference for Ministry of Youth, the contract role took 4 months to complete. It was a success.

December – Dad returned to Auckland. Magnus and I took Isabella to Hawaii for a week long holiday. She did fantastic on her 1st plane ride.

The year is filled with sleep training, learning each step of growing with a baby (we all grew together with the new things we learn). I received tremendous amount of supports and wisdom from family and friends all around the world since becoming a mum.  Magnus is the best father and husband I can wish for. My parents and Magnus’s parents have been super helpful and supportive of us. Isabella is a sweet, smart, adorable and determined little being. I am looking forward to 2018, I trust there will be more adventures, laughters, a few tears here and there and some more precious memories to create and to keep.

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Run

Today I went out for a run after putting Bella to bed. It is summer in Auckland now, and the evening temperature is the most comfortable. I decided to develop a hobby. I always envy people who are more fit than me. Running is something I was good at when I was young, so why not pick it up again.

It was a very beautiful evening , the sun was going down. The colours of the sky were various shades of gold. I didn’t feel that breathless after completing a circle around the block.

Its a good idea to write it down. Lets see how far I can take this hobby of running. I was never good at keep doing one thing for a long time, maybe it is time to start one.

My goal is whenever I feel tired or need a pick up of energy, I can just get into a pair of running shoes and go out then come back feeling fully charged again. Running could be my way of charging the batteries.

Till then

Post March now in July

So shortly after the Kunming train station stabbing on 1st of March , on the 8th the MH370 disappeared. We are at the end of July now, the plane is still missing.

In May celebrated my birthday with the theme of a Onesies’s party, had lots of friends over, it was a lovely celebration.

A few days after my birthday another attack took place at a morning market in my hometown Urumuqi , 31 killed many were old people who were shopping for fresh and cheap vegetables at the market.

June don’t remember much except signed the paper on the 9th, so by law I am a married woman now.

July hosted a group of business people from South East Asia, learnt a lot from them , a very productive and good trip. Then followed by another delegation from China, very different group, interesting people also enjoyed meeting them. Right after the hosting business is done, before I got on the flight from Christchurch back to Auckland, found out the Malaysia airline got shot down in Ukraine. A few days later, a Taiwanese airline came down due to poor weather, then a few days later an Algerian flight came down ….

I guess this is how life is going to continue for the rest of my journey, celebrations followed by tragedies then more celebrations .  Watched a documentary about Deepak Chopra, he said that the whole universe is in every one of us. We are the universe, everything is linked . There is no death, its unborn , its eternal … If you truly believe in it, it seems to take away the sadness of this world a little. I also would like to possess the wisdom to understand that this physical body and the world around us does not define who I am. After my physical body pass on, part of me still goes back to this universe, it continues.

But why do we hang on to this and that…does this world deserve us to hang on to? Thats another question for another day.