Road trip through Tamil Nadu – Part 2

We left Madurai at 9 am and arrived in Kenyakumari , the southernmost tip of India at 2pm.we found a hotel right by the sea. It had an amazing view out from the balcony. We were going to check in a holiday resort, but I insisted we check out a few options listed in LP before we settle . It was a good decision, we found the best hotel looking out to the ocean with a good rate.

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The view from our hotel balcony looking out to Vivekananda Rock

We had a delicious lunch at the hotel, I had fish curry it was so yummy and a whole lot better than the meals we had on this trip. I was feeling in much better spirit after had some good food. There were two German tourists sitting next to us and it was really cool to hear Sita conversing with them in German. I think those two German tourists were surprised a lady dresses in traditional sari can speak their lauguage with such elegance and fluency, I was really proud . After lunch we took the ferry to see this memorial, which name I can’t recall. It’s on a little island where this Tamil poet meditaed on a rock. He is also a spiritual teacher and enlightened lots of people. I need to find his famous speech in Chicago to understand the significance of this place.

(Later on I found out from Wikipedia : The Thiruvalluvar Statue is a 133 feet (40.6 m) tall stone sculpture of the Tamil poet and saint Tiruvalluvar, author of the Thirukkural. It was opened on January 1, 2000 (Millennium) and is located atop a small island near the town of Kanyakumari, where two seas and an ocean meet; the Bay of Bengal, the Arabian Sea, and the Indian Ocean . source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thiruvalluvar_Statue )

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the statue

The ferry ride was less than 5 mins we all had to wear this orange life jacket. I asked people to take picture of me at the memorial place, the common problem is that most people can capture me but not the surroundings, so many pictures with me in it could end up being taken in my backyard. Surprisingly our driver take some good pictures, one of few best shots of me were taken by him.

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Neeraja, Sita and me in our life jackets

When I was walking around alone at the memorial (as it happens I always walk a lot faster than my travel companions and ended up on my own) I was also asked by a group of 10 guys to join them for a picture, they were friendly and harmless . The thing is when I’m at a spiritual place, I think people I met there are with good intention. I’m always on guard when I’m alone, but when at temples etc, most people will act kindly towards one another. You just got to follow your intuition.

We watched a beautiful sunset at the tip of the most southern point of India. It was a beach packed with tourists and families. The problem is that the place stank, soon I realized there are poos in the rocks where I had my sunset photo taken. It was quite disgusting and once again proved the saying that India is never as good or bad as it seems. You just have to laugh at the situation and accept it is what it is. Nevertheless it was very special to end the day at the place where three oceans meet, the Arabian sea, Indian ocean and the West Bengal.

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The sunset at the southernmost tip of India

After the sunset Neeraja and Sita went to the Devi Kanya Kumari temple , I had dinner alone and rested in the hotel. I went out got some masala chai and chatted with a couple from Europe. They have been to Kerala and confirmed my decision was right about not staying overnight on the houseboat. It was crowded and full of other tourists on the boat. Kerala is my next stop. My feeling towards Kerala is half half. One side I really look forward to it and think it might be the highlight of my trip, on the other end it’s the most  expensive part of the trip if it didn’t turn out well, I will be quite disappointed. Anyway no need to speculate, nothing is in my control. Try to enjoy and take India as it comes.

The next morning three of us woke up at 5am sit on the balcony and waiting for the sun to rise from the horizon. I will always cherish and remember that moment, in the early morning hearing the morning prayers and chants coming from the catholic church and the temples …

Roadtrip through Tamil Nadu – Part 1

My friend Neeraja and her cousin Sita kindly gave up their Diwali time with the families and decided to take me on a road trip start from Chennai travel to Kenyakumari the south tip of India.

Neeraja translates documents from Indian languages to English and vice versa. Sita use to work for the German embassy in Chennai. She is very articulate and has a really good sense of humor. I learnt a lot from these two ladies about the history and stories of India. Our driver Murugesan is a very kind man with a big smile, he has two kids, one 10 and one 13 both are boys, he really looked after us on this road trip.

Most common food I have had on this trip was  dosa served with chutney and sambar on leaves. It was quite simple ad most places serve very similar food, I wanted something different but it’s food and when you see so many people sleeping on the roadside , it’s a bit heartless for me to complain about the food I have. The road condition was poor and most villages we passed by had no electricity. Some scooters on the road travelling at night didn’t even have lights on. The most funny thing is when we stopped asking for police for direction, we saw two guys on the scooter with four goats in between them.We saw many temples and I almost lost track of the names of them we visited.

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the many cups of delicious chai

The temple in Thanjavour was truly magnificent. We went around 9 am finished in two hours. Everyone need to walk around bare feet, when we were leaving I saw a group of European tourists arrived with wooly socks on. the floor can be burning hot during midday .

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kids dressed in new clothes visiting temple with dad

After three hours drive on road in superb condition with no traffic due to the holiday, we arrived Madurai late in the afternoon. Went straight to the Sri Meenakashi temple.  The temples was built for Sri Meenakashi a fish eyed Goddess. The story goes that she has three breasts, when she met her husband God Shiva the third breast will melt away.

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Thanjourve temple
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Meenakshi temple
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Inside Meenakshi

We were all a bit exhausted after visiting the temple, its getting dark and the fireworks started. We stopped at the YMCA because Sita really needs to borrow the bathroom.  While Sita and Neeraja went, I asked the front desk about rooms and decided we would spend the night there. There was no decent restaurant open since its Diwali. We ended up in this tiny restaurant serving Rajasthani food. I had four pieces of thin doti. When we were at dinner I told Neeraja that I don’t think I can travel with this pace any longer. I am a lazy tourist, I just want to see one or two things a day and spend the rest of time lounging in cafes or watching locals get by the day. travelling 8 hrs in car than walking 3 hrs in a temple is pretty tough work.  Main tourists attractions were never a big thing for me. If the queue is too long, I won’t want to see it regardless how famous the attraction is . So we came to an agreement  with less time on the road and more rest for us.

Next day is the actual Diwali. I got a nice silk top from Sita as the Diwali gifts. The ladies all dressed in beautiful Sari . Neeraja had a blue colored one. Sita had a sand colored with tribal prints on it. when we woke up all the shops and restaurants were closed. Had a simple breakfast , the server had to be reminded for five times about my chai comes with milk. They seem to be in a constant state of high confusion. They were very kind when we left without the water bottle we purchased, one of the server came after us gave us the water.

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Neeraja and Sita

Tamil Nadu road trip to be continued…